Ben Smith: 'I felt like I had no feelings, so with self-harm I felt pain' | eParenting and Parenting in the 21st Century | Scoop.it

Ben Smith started cutting himself when he felt that nobody cared about him.

 

He was 14 and in Year 10 at a West Auckland high school. When he was about 8, he had found out that the man he thought was his dad was not his real father. Suddenly he understood why he was always treated differently from his two younger brothers, who were his father's children.