Occasionally we meet a person who almost immediately makes us feel special. They're courteous, friendly, and charismatic, they build and maintain great relationships, they consistently influence (in a good way) the people around them, and they almost always make us feel better about ourselves.
They're the kind of people we like to be around and wish we were more like. And we can be. What do genuinely charismatic people do?
Via The Learning Factor
Best of all, you can be totally sincere and genuine, too.
Pretty good tips fr being self aware and likeable... focus on the people you are with when you are with them...